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EP182: What’s Your Inner Voice Saying?
Not all signs are grand or loud. Sometimes the clearest and most needed signs are hints. This episode talks about exploring what your inner voice is saying.
Each one of us has an all-knowing inner voice. That inner voice guides us if we pay attention to it. It’ll even prompt us to do things that don’t completely make logical sense. You’ll usually feel a nudge of inspiration in a certain direction, which can lead to the next step you need. I’ve been getting a lot of inspirational nudges lately.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP182’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. The things you feel inspired to do may not always make logical sense to you at first glance. Still, you probably attach a sense of joy or curiosity towards that action or scenario that’s calling out to you.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about exploring what your inner voice is saying. Listening to that part of you becomes a gift to yourself and others. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- How often in your life do you listen to your all-knowing inner voice?
- Is there a way for you to drop into your heart to understand that inner voice more?
- As you reflect on the times your inner voice prompts you, are you willing to take a chance on it?
- Can you approach the opportunity with optimism?
The more we listen to our inner voice, the more the path of our True Stride is going to clear for us.
Make it a priority to trust yourself. Bring joy by following your intuitive inner voice with these Wise Walk questions:
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- Do you acknowledge that nudges have a purpose in your life and possibly others?
- Does your inner voice ever surprise you?
- Do you find delight in taking action on the nudges you receive?
- Where in life can you step more into your power?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[01:26] – How often in your life do you listen to your all-knowing inner voice? PART 1
[04:43] – How often in your life do you listen to your all-knowing inner voice? PART 2
[06:36] – Are you honoring your intuitive inner voice?
[08:32] – Bring joy by following joy.
[11:20] – Mary Tess talks about learning to trust your inner voice.
[13:00] – Where in life can you step more into your power?
[15:01] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “The more we listen to that inner voice, the more the path is going to clear for us.” – Mary Tess
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EP181: Hula Hoop Health & Happiness
When you’re feeling off balance, you may simply need a bit of fun and joy to get you back into your body. Where can you give yourself grace to do things that bring you joy without overextending yourself? This episode talks about hula hoop health and happiness.
Over 11 weeks ago, I had a successful colon surgery. I’m still healing and just started working with a physical therapist. At first, I thought I’d get some momentum going for a speedy recovery. I’m making progress and need to wake up some of the muscles that are still lagging behind, specifically muscles in my lower abdomen.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP181’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. The lower abdomen helps protect the back, supporting our stability and full range of motion. This has me thinking of being mindful about how different areas of our life work together so we have a better flow and range.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about bringing joyful outlets into your life, such as hula hoop health and happiness. If one area is off, we can look at life and think of how to bring everything back into harmony. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- Where in your life are you feeling vulnerable or compromised?
- Are you mindful that you may rely too much on another area to make up for it, and could that lead to an injury?
- Do you have a plan to take care of the vulnerable or weakened part of your life in a safe way?
- Are you holding unrealistic expectations about how that part of your life will heal?
Once you find something you like, invite your support system to engage in these activities with you. Spending time walking together or hula hooping with each other can be healing for mind, body, and soul.
Find what helps you rebalance your life. Honor your harmony with these Wise Walk questions:
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- Are there areas in your life where you’re operating as if you have full energy, when the reality is less than that?
- Where can you give yourself grace to do things that bring you joy without overextending yourself?
- Can you honor your need for joy and fun?
- As you think about weaker areas of your life, how can you honor that while shifting your energy towards health and happiness?
- Can you loop a loved one in for support?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[03:13] – Where in your life are you feeling vulnerable or compromised?
[05:12] – Mary Tess talks about exercises she does for physical therapy.
[07:58] – Are you holding unrealistic expectations about the need you have?
[09:45] – Mary Tess talks about exploring hula hooping as an exercise.
[12:07] – Shift towards health and happiness.
[13:35] – Mary Tess talks about managing vulnerabilities.
[15:18] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “Accept vulnerability, and learn how to reengage or reignite the area to be as strong as possible.” – Mary Tess
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EP180: Silly Over Seriousness
It’s so easy to get caught up in wanting to feel responsible and productive. We can be those things while still finding ways to enjoy life in between all of our efforts. This episode talks about choosing silly over seriousness.
This weekend, I got a call from my friend who never calls people (he’s a texter). I worried at first if something was wrong, then my friend shared the exciting news of having tickets to an awesome event described as the “Cirque du Soleil of baseball.” He shared that he wanted to go with someone he thought he’d have fun with and that I came to mind. To me, that’s such a lovely compliment and I’m glad I said YES without overthinking it.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP180’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. Initially, I asked for 10 minutes to process the opportunity since I had so much to do, but then I remembered to prioritize fun. That was the final nudge I needed to go enjoy the event with my friend!
On our Wise Walk, I talk about how many times we pass up silly, fun moments for something serious. Give yourself a moment to choose what will light you up and spark your child-like curiosity. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- Where in your life can you choose silly over seriousness?
- Where in life can you say “Yes” to stepping outside your norm?
- How can you embrace more child-like opportunities to have fun and play?
- Can you get playful with finding your child-like curiosity?
Sometimes we need a simple reminder to lighten up. Ask yourself and loved ones if they’ve visited their child-like joy lately.
Joyful, playful, fun moments are waiting for you. Step into your child-like rhythm of curiosity with these Wise Walk questions:
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- How can you explore playful ways to deal with unexpected delays?
- Can you use playfulness to elevate your vibration and experience?
- When’s the last time you were spontaneous enough to explore a fun experience without knowing what it’d exactly be like?
- Do you allow yourself to accompany people when they’re exploring fun and adventure?
- Can you dig deeper into your silly side?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:52] – Where in your life can you choose silly over seriousness?
[04:00] – Mary Tess talks about what she thought about the joyful and silly event she went to with a friend.
[06:57] – When was the last time you shifted to your child-like curiosity?
[08:09] – Mary Tess talks about being open to fun and creating moments with people around you.
[10:22] – How can you explore playful ways to deal with unexpected delays?
[12:24] – Create memories by saying “Yes” to opportunities.
[14:16] – Where will “Yes” take you?
[16:34] – Mary Tess says she’s known in her family for doing this playful prank.
[18:14] – Ask loved ones if they’ve visited their child-like joy lately.
[20:48] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “Share whatever makes you laugh on a day to day basis with your loved ones because laughter is contagious.” – Mary Tess
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EP179: Embrace Puzzling Perspectives
Life may be presenting you with puzzling perspectives at the moment. You may be looking at pieces and unsure of how they’ll all fit together. This episode talks about ways to embrace puzzling perspectives.
One of my dear friends sent a 500-piece puzzle as a reminder for me to nurture myself and take it easy. I find this lake-themed gift to be so thoughtful and beautiful. It’s a beautiful puzzle illustration, but I realized how many ways you can take on the task when I first started putting it together with my mom and sister.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP179’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. We all approach life’s situations in a different way. This means no matter what you’re facing, there’s most likely a different way to approach or engage that situation if you’re feeling stuck. Most times you may need to take one new step to open a new path of possibility.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about ways to embrace puzzling perspectives. Instead of forcing pieces together, take time to explore a different approach. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- As you look at goals and experiences, can you find another lens to view your current situation?
- With what lens do you approach your life?
- What puzzling situation are you solving lately?
- Will you give yourself the freedom to try on different perspectives about next steps or outcomes?
Trust that as you continue your True Stride the puzzle pieces presented to you will connect in a much more harmonious and natural way.
Sometimes we try to force things when we should let them flow. Welcome the opportunities to come together piece by piece with these Wise Walk questions:
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- As you try on different perspectives, which one feels most aligned?
- As you try on different perspectives, which one makes you cringe?
- Will you give yourself the freedom to not make a choice if the current options feel too unaligned?
- Where in your life could you embrace the idea of divine timing?
- Is there an area in your life where you’re putting in so much effort it feels forced?
- Can you go on a Wise Walk to explore a new perspective on that forced situation?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:41] – Mary Tess talks about different perspectives creating different priorities.
[05:10] – Every day we try to solve something in our life.
[08:07] – What puzzling situation are you solving lately?
[10:00] – Sometimes we try to force things when we should let them flow.
[13:07] – Where in your life could you embrace the idea of divine timing?
[15:53] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “I love that each one of us had a unique perspective that we were bringing to the table with how we construct the same puzzle.” – Mary Tess
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EP178: Freedom Remodeling
Remodeling can be a messy process, yet it also carries the energy of release and rebirth. You get to let go of what no longer supports you and set up a more empowering scenario for yourself. This episode talks about freedom remodeling.
On our last episode, I shared that I finally got the doctor’s “ALL CLEAR” to start physical therapy on my abdomen and pelvic floor after I had colon surgery. I’m realizing that physical therapy is a core component in healing. I’ll need to remodel the scar tissue that built up over the 8 weeks I wasn’t active after the surgery.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP178’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. Healing the scar tissue allows me to regain more movement in my body and strengthen my core. Similar to my healing body, I’m focusing my efforts so I can remodel my life all around with tender loving care.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about finding which areas of your life need remodeling and how to take steps towards making a change. You can remodel life physically, spiritually, emotionally, and more. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- What experiences in your life are weighing you down or causing tension?
- What intentions can you set for those areas in your life that need remodeling?
- Can you set an intention to find solutions to the obstacles restricting you?
Remodeling is not a passive experience. It requires work or an investment to have your vision come to fruition.
Prepare to switch your life around by remodeling what needs your tender love care. Find freedom in remodeling with these Wise Walk questions:
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- Are you putting anything off that is holding you back?
- Is there a worse consequence for not handling obstacles earlier?
- What do you envision for yourself in the best scenario?
- Can you use that scenario to take action towards remodeling your life?
- How are you managing your energy for remodeling your life?
- Who in your life is supporting or draining you while you’re remodeling?
- Will you remodel your relationships as well?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:41] – What intentions can you set for those areas in your life that need remodeling?
[04:06] – Getting started early to set a steady foundation.
[06:50] – How are you managing your energy for remodeling your life?
[09:45] – Mary Tess talks about remodeling your life in the present and the past. PART 1
[12:46] – Mary Tess talks about remodeling your life in the present and the past. PART 2
[14:46] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “A little short term pain for long term gain.” – Mary Tess
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EP177: What Are You Manifesting?
Are you creating opportunities to attract what you seek? Sometimes we want a lot from life, but we should give those things space to come in. This episode talks about big and small manifestations.
I was chuckling with a friend recently about how I feel more in alignment with some of the things that I’m seeking and attracting. I shared that I’m in a good groove with manifesting things that are important to me right now, even the little things. One example is manifesting doctor appointments after being told there are no spots left. I hold space for what I envision and it comes to pass.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP177’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. You can set intentions and live in the energy of what you’d like to manifest. If you’ve ever been skeptical about manifestation, take this time to explore what it could look like in your life. There’s nothing to lose.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about putting yourself out there to attract what you are seeking. You have the ability to invite what you’re seeking into your life. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- As you move through your day, are there things you’re trying to manifest and are you expressing yourself?
- Are you turning those wishes into actionable outcomes?
- Are you showing up for your manifestation in a way where others can support you?
- Do you know your manifestation is possible, or do you doubt it?
Invite the Universe, the people around you, and all of life’s resources to support your manifestations. You’d be surprised how well things can align in your favor.
Hold space for your intentions and enter a grateful knowingness that it’s already done. Make room for your manifestations with these Wise Walk questions:
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- What is one tangible thing you want to manifest?
- What ways can you express or share the intention for that manifestation?
- Do you feel like a magnet?
- Are you already in a state of gratitude?
- What are some things that hold you back while you’re manifesting?
- How do you proactively create practices to get clarity about your manifestations?
- Are you releasing your ego to fully dream of what you envision?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:21] – Are you creating opportunities to attract what you seek?
[04:11] – What is manifestation anyway?
[06:37] – Do you feel like a magnet?
[09:31] – Mary Tess talks about moving towards manifesting bigger things into her life.
[12:16] – What are some things that hold you back while you’re manifesting?
[14:26] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “This knowingness, this ability to be a magnet for the things that we seek, and this ability to express it to people who can help us is a huge game changer.” – Mary Tess
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EP176: What Are You Noticing?
When we slow down and check our reality, we get to tap into our internal world and also check how we’re viewing our external world. The way we view our world influences the actions we choose. This episode talks about becoming more aware of what we notice.
This past week I received a book in the mail as a gift from a friend who lives across the country. The book is called Noticing by Kobi Yamada and illustrated by Elise Hurst. I enjoyed a clear message given in the book: “What if you notice the good in yourself and others? What would you see?”
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP176’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. It’s interesting to take more time to look from within our heart to see what’s around us with more awareness and clarity. The path for our True Stride opens up as we take actions to embrace the good that we notice.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about what we are noticing in terms of what is good and possible in our lives. Noticing the good means we are giving attention and energy to positivity and allowing more good to bloom on our path. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- What has been your emotional or energetic space lately?
- Is there an opportunity to look within and notice the good?
- What’s one thing you can do to step further into that goodness?
Regardless of our age or situation, we have the ability to create change, even without something extremely disruptive switching our lives. We can simply embrace a shift.
The universe continues to send us messages to keep following the path that lights us up. Bravely go after the good in your life with these Wise Walk questions:
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- What uncomfortable moment in life disrupted your life so much you had to notice your unhappiness?
- Were you able to get curious and notice the good in the situation?
- What are some steps you could take to go after that goodness?
- Is there a change in your life that is calling you?
- Are you ready to go after that change and allow goodness to come towards you?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:40] – Tough moments can give us the opportunity to seek change.
[05:16] – Mary Tess talks about situations that forced her to see the disconnect in her life.
[07:56] – In seeking the good, you open a path to meet the good that’s around you.
[09:25] – What uncomfortable moment disrupted your life?
[11:01] – Embracing change.
[14:00] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “If I shy away from the unknown, not willing to get curious and explore it, then I will have regrets. I don’t want to live a life of regrets.” – Mary Tess
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EP175: Vulnerable Ebb & Flow
Many of us don’t know what’s going on in each other’s lives. Even conversations with our closest friend don’t cover everything we’re handling. It’s not that people need to know everything, rather, it helps to be more intentional about sharing where we’re at in life. This episode talks about how to embrace a vulnerable ebb and flow.
This past week I had the opportunity to visit with a very dear friend I’ve known since college. That visit was magical in so many different ways, mostly for the fact that we got to spend quality time together being ourselves. We accept each other for who we are and are able to share stories about different areas of our lives.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP175’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. My friend and I talked about family, health, career, dreams, age, and even more. We simply acknowledge this experience of us being in our late 40s and no one preparing us for the changes that happen as we grow older. We’ve supported each other through various ebbs and flows through life during our longtime friendship. I’m grateful we have one another.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about how to embrace a vulnerable ebb and flow. You can find ways to acknowledge how you’re handling life events. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- What’s an area in your life that is surprising you right now, or maybe an area in your life that you’re struggling with?
- Who do you trust to share your inner thoughts with?
- If you don’t have a person, do you have another way to express what you’re feeling and thinking?
- What’s getting in the way of you expressing your thoughts?
- What’s a step you can take to be more vulnerable and honest about your ebbs and flows?
As we recognize our ebbs and flows, it also gives us a chance to relearn ourselves. You get to recall how much you’re grown in the ways you face life events or decide to change from that point on.
Vulnerably embrace life’s ebb and flow. Reconnect to yourself with these Wise Walk questions:
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- What is the daily emotional armor you put on by habit?
- Can you name the armor you carry around the most?
- Can you recognize moments where you can put that armor down?
- Where do you want to prioritize your energy instead of your armor?
- Who will you share your energy with (if you choose to)?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[01:41] – How do you release your inner thoughts?
[03:25] – Mary Tess recalls the past six weeks of healing after her surgery. How is she handling her ebbs and flows?
[05:59] – Mary Tess talks about resharing stories with her friend that feel a bit different now that they’ve grown more.
[08:06] – What is the daily emotional armor you put on by habit?
[09:53] – Mary Tess talks about what she’s relearning about herself.
[12:54] – Being honest about where you’re currently at.
[15:44] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “Imperfection is just one trait of being human.” – Mary Tess
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EP174: Authentic Connections
True alignment is when our thoughts and intentions match with how we show up. That’s the main reason why “actions speak louder than words.” When we show up authentically, we can create more honest connections with ourselves and others. This episode talks about authentic connections.
I’ve been flooded by different messages and signs about the importance of authenticity. Not simply in a surface-level way, but authenticity that’s the highest frequency and vibration that we can reach. If you don’t know frequency and vibration, it’s the idea that all matter and energy vibrates at a certain frequency. Negative thoughts or feelings are low frequency. Positive thoughts or feelings vibrate at a higher frequency.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP174’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. We as humans have a choice to honor frequencies and vibrations that appear throughout our life. It could be ourselves or what we’re surrounded by. Each of these can impact us in a negative or positive way.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about how to have authentic connections. Allowing yourself to be truly authentic helps you align with and attract a life that suits you. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- Are you aware of the vibration or frequency that you’re feeling and giving off moment to moment?
- How often in your life do you feel authentically aligned?
- Do you feel an unfiltered connection to yourself and how you show up?
- How does authentic alignment make you feel?
- If you have moments where you feel unaligned, do you take responsibility for how you’re showing up?
- Where in life can you love authentically, starting with yourself?
- When you think about feeling the energy of love, can you think about how to amplify that feeling?
I invite you to think about where in your life you can deepen that unfiltered connection to yourself where what you say and do matches to your authentic, high vibrational self and others.
Let’s raise to a higher vibe individually and collectively. Choose authentic connections with these Wise Walk questions:
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- How often do you love yourself authentically?
- Can you bravely remain true to you?
- Who is an example in your life of someone whose actions and words are in true alignment?
- How do you feel in their presence?
- How do you feel when they make promises to you?
- What does their energy do for your energy?
- Can you think about promises you make to yourself and if you follow through?
- Are you able to remain true to what’s important to you?
- Are you taking steps to protect what’s important to you?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[02:27] – How does authentic alignment make you feel?
[04:53] – Authenticity is a higher vibration than love, which is already a high frequency.
[06:55] – How often do you love yourself authentically?
[08:18] – “Actions speak louder than words.”
[10:56] – What is important to you?
[13:54] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “If someone is not being true to themselves, not acting and speaking in alignment with who they are, then there’s a disconnect.” – Mary Tess
Links and Resources:
EP173: Honor Your Experience
Where in our lives can we move into an energy of acceptance vs expectation? Honestly, every experience starts with some expectation and idea of what we think will unfold. That can cause disappointment if we don’t know how to honor what’s happening. This episode talks about how to honor your experience.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about our ability to honor our experiences. To me, honoring our experience means to stay present in each moment and see what’s possible when we engage in our individual and collective experiences. We don’t have to grasp onto expectations so rigidly.
I’m here to spend quality solo time with you for EP173’s Wise Walk as we discover our True Stride. I’m realizing that having a rigid expectation can prevent us from really honoring what’s in front of us. Your emotions do well on educating you on what experiences you want to create more of or eliminate in your life. That can be our guiding light.
On our Wise Walk, I talk about how to honor your experience. Honor the experience as it is and give yourself the permission to enjoy the experience. Come with me as we reflect on these Wise Walk questions:
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- Where in your life do you find yourself already thinking, planning, or rehearsing a conversation ahead of time?
- As you think about the future, are there times where you are disappointed that the moment doesn’t play out how you envisioned?
- How can you embrace a habit of not creating that cycle in your life?
Drop into your heart a little bit more. This way you can honor all your experiences in the most unique and special way possible.
Hold space for the possibilities living within each experience. Loosen your grasp with these Wise Walk questions:
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- Can you think of an example where your experience was completely different from how someone else saw it?
- Did your different perspectives push you apart or bring you closer together as you shared the moment?
- During that moment, did you hold space for the moment with less rigid expectations?
- How often in life are you completely honest with your experience?
- As you prepare yourself for an experience, do you know why you’re pursuing this experience?
- Can you honor the individual experiences happening around you without losing your own?
- Can you allow and accept without judging?
Join this inspiring community to uncover a new sense of freedom, and be sure to follow and review the True Stride podcast as we continue to exchange our light and Heart Value with each other.
In this episode:
[00:23] – Welcome to the show!
[03:13] – Mary Tess talks about sharing her love of baking with friends and what moment that brought up.
[05:30] – How often do we build something up to change a moment that’s not ours alone?
[08:52] – Mary Tess talks about giving yourself permission to enjoy the experience.
[11:37] – “Drop into your heart a little bit more.”
[14:16] – Are you also honoring experiences where you’re not happy or feeling upset?
[17:00] – Thank you for listening!
Memorable Quotes:
- “I love that these Wise Walks and conversations help Striders like you be more of the beautiful, radiant soul that you already are.” – Mary Tess
Links and Resources: